How would your life be different if you were able to sustain the consistent confidence and belief in yourself that no matter what happened, you knew you would figure it out?
What would become possible if you stopped doubting yourself and stopped stressing over what you could not control?
What would change if you were able to act with greater courage and make the decisions you've been stalling on?
Let's face it, most of the problems in our lives happen because we have allowed randomness and distraction to run their course in our immediate surroundings and most importantly, within ourselves.
We are living in a time of increasing distractions, information and overload.
Yet simultaneously, a time where we can have, do and be anything we want — assuming we know what that is.
We are drowning in information, while starving for wisdom. E.O. Wilson
Why do some people accomplish more, continuously raise their standards and do it with greater consistency, while others fail or don't even get started?
The philosophy and principles of WIN FROM WITHIN describe the difference between how some are able to achieve their most ambitious goals and sustain a growing sense of fulfillment while others either burn out because they fear falling behind or are unable to handle the challenges of the next level. Some even lose connection to their dream and eventually find themselves stuck or frustrated.
As an optimal performance coach, I've worked with many different people who have have grown frustrated with their results or lack of it, they doubted themselves more than they liked to admit, they were not able to sustain their energy levels necessary to transform their lives and their careers, or they simply started going through the motions until one day, everything changed. I have researched and studied some of the most extraordinary leaders, athletes, philosophers, creatives and decision makers throughout history, and they all faced similar challenges.
We've all been there, the feeling of uncertainty and doubt. Of not knowing what to focus on next.
We talk of reaching our next level yet many of us, both top performers, highly accomplished people, and those just getting started, are barely mastering and getting by at the current level.
I'm sure we both know people like this - paralyzed by too many options, seeking out too much feedback and not doing the important work of focusing on what matters most. They can't connect the dots and have one-off moments of insight or breakthrough, but aren't able to create meaningful and consistent leaps forward that create lasting momentum and increased confidence.
We've come across people like this several times in our childhood or adult life.
Maybe, it's even the reflection in the mirror.
People who are incredibly talented, hard working and determined that simply spin their wheels and don't get much farther than they currently are.
Or people that run their hardest and seem to have it all, only to come crashing down at the finish line.
"At the center of your being you have the answer; you know who you are and you know what you want." Lao Tzu
We have allowed the misinformed and biased opinions of others to cloud our judgment, shake our confidence and hide our genius.
People today are more uncertain of themselves. They hesitate to make decisions that would change their lives, their careers or the lives of family and loved ones.
They are doing so much more than ever. They are incredibly determined but just don't know exactly what they want. They say they're ready for the next level yet they're drained, and most importantly, they speak of their dreams with fervent passion that you can even see their eyes light up, but they're scared of what others might say.
Seeing this in the lives of my clients and so many more people whom I speak with and interview, is what fuels my heart, fills my spirit and drives me to develop deeper understanding of human behavior and the reason I created WIN FROM WITHIN.
To many people are allowing themselves to be pulled into randomness and mediocrity. They are coasting through life and going with the flow simply because they don't really know what they want because they haven't created the time to ask the really hard questions and developed the patience to listen for the answers that come from within.
These same people lack the reminders, the simple principles, philosophy and the coaching to sustain the growth and success they desire.
They lack the holistic approach to look at their lives from all angles and quickly decide what is most important and what will make the greatest impact.
Life is both the ups and downs and sadly, so many people want to fast forward through life and miss out on all the lessons that are found in their toughest moments and deepest struggles.
...it's not easy to look deep into your hardest moments and extract the learning lessons.
...it's not easy to endure through the hardship and pain, to push through the exhaustion when you feel like you've got nothing left in the tank.
...it's not easy to pull yourself up when you've been knocked down, over and over again and each time, lose the connection with your dream just a little bit more and feel your momentum quickly coming to a halt.
Here's the good news and what I know and believe about you:
1. You've pushed through difficult times despite enduring many tough moments.
2. It doesn't always feel as hard - sometimes, you even enjoy the hard work that comes with the struggle.
3. You can honestly look back and say, "the toughest moments were the ones I learned and grew the most from."
4. There have been times when you didn't have all the answers or the support you needed, and you still figured it out.
5. When you did have the right coach or mentor in your life, anything became possible and you noticed how much faster you accomplished your goals and how much better you became.
6. That you have much more to give and grow and are curious for what's in store for you at the next level.
All of the histories great leaders, world class performers and iconic personalities faced the same struggles that we are undergoing today.
The same fears and setbacks.
They had deeply ingrained societal norms and strong pulls towards remaining status quo because the world was less connected.
There was less choice.
But that's exactly what made them great. They pulled away from the status quo and the resistance.
They lept forward from the pull of mediocrity and the stifling poison of complacency and took charge of their lives.
They focused on what mattered most and what deeply moved and stirred the gifts within them.
They persevered because it was a matter of life or death - creative expression and reinvention or the slow death of an unexpressed and unfulfilled life.
So what has changed.
For starters, the world of today is moving so much faster, at least it feels that way.
We have way more options and choices than ever before and so much more at our fingertips, literally.
The ease with which we can do things has increased and the cost of doing things has decreased.
Exchanging ideas from different parts of the world and gathering ideas from different periods of time is far more accessible.
At a moments notice, you can gain the info you need at the click of a button.
And at the same time, all of this ease and overload has created even more confusion and fatigue.
Physical fatigue - we are moving much less since we are more confined to desk jobs and staring at computers and screens. We simply are getting tired so much faster because we lack endurance.
Mental fatigue - information overload has our brains working twice as much and not giving it enough time to connect the dots and create themes for our life. Time therefore seems to be moving faster as it all feels that much more clumped together. This adds to further physical fatigue because we don't get enough sleep as our minds take longer to wind down.
Emotional fatigue - Over 90% of our decisions are emotional, yet we have become worse at making decisions. Through the use of social apps like facebook or instagram, we make instant emotional decisions to like or heart, thumbs up or thumbs down, angry face or happy face, almost instantly. Our ability to sit with our emotions and thoughts longer is costing us the ability to focus on what matters most for consistent and extended periods of time.
Spiritual fatigue - with some much information, mental, physical and emotional fatigue, we aren't getting around to expressing ourselves. We remain stagnant and are lacking in key areas such as wonder, awe and connection to the magic of life. We have lost connection with the joy of living.
People want the edge, the next best thing to revitalize themselves and get back to being joyous and vibrant, yet often, the first place they look is outside themselves.
You've made it this far amidst so much distraction and hardship, but a few questions keep coming up: What's next? How do I get better? How can I get more hours in the day? Do I have to keep grinding and hustling? Is this really the best version of my best life?
Can you relate?
I want you to know something - you are not alone.
I want to remind you of something - you have it all within you to accomplish and achieve anything beyond your wildest dreams.
KNOW THIS - Your dream wouldn't have been given to you if it weren't inside of you to bring it to life. I also know that your dream wasn't sewn inside your heart and nestled within the depths of your soul because it would be easy for you.
The main reason most people don't do what it takes to bring their dreams to life - they trade excellence for ease and don't commit to new standards that are aligned with what they want.
They would rather stay within the confines of what they know rather than connect with the incessant and inherent call within them to grow, to expand, to lead and to serve.
But not you, and most definitely, not the greatest leaders throughout time and the people whom I have coached and moved on to produce extraordinary results in their life.
Now, I'm not saying they didn't struggle.
What I am saying is that they found a way to call upon and systematically illicit their genius and reach new levels of mastery.
...They didn’t go searching for answers everywhere else but within themselves.
...They didn’t allow the distractions of life to add new complexities and worry to their life, pulling them further away from the one place they needed to focus on the most.
…They didn’t seek random feedback and leave their future and legacy to chance or luck.
...They didn't back away from their toughest challenges and most complex problems. They knew that within those challenges, lied the key to their next level of excellence.
...They didn't believe in silver bullets or overnight success tips.
Take a moment and read back to what they didn't do and how they were able to set themselves apart.
Do you notice a pattern?
This same pattern that I began to notice in my clients and those that I have researched and interviewed, are the reasons I created:
For over 5 years, I have been blessed to coach hundreds of great leaders, athletes, creatives and executives who are emotionally, mentally, spiritually and physically committed to reaching new levels of excellence.
They adopted WIN FROM WITHIN as their mantra, their unifying philosophy and set of actionable disciplines and principles that would guide them towards their greatest ambitions.
Even the greatest leaders, athletes, executives, creatives and industry disruptors needed a reminder, a trigger that would easily set themselves up for success.
They sought something that would simplify their lives because they knew one thing was certain, the world would continue to give them greater and bigger challenges.
They needed a philosophy that was tied to their identity in such a way that it didn't limit their potential, it activated it.
And most importantly, they wanted a system and actionable disciplines that helped them become world class decision makers - knowing what mattered most and when.
"The best know that the greatest challenges which lead to the greatest results are never outside of them, they are always within."
They knew that in order to achieve the results and life they wanted, they needed to develop a stronger interior core that they could activate on demand, and command of themselves whatever was required to succeed.
WIN FROM WITHIN became their call that illicited their best. It was a philosophy that they carried anywhere they went and no matter what they were doing.
By simply saying, WIN FROM WITHIN, and owning what it meant, they knew where to focus in order to have the greatest impact.
— those that WIN FROM WITHIN become the forward moving edge versus always being on edge.
— those that WIN FROM WITHIN are connected to who they are and what they want versus waiting for approval, validation or recognition.
— they seek out challenges versus always reacting to what life puts in their way.
— those that WIN FROM WITHIN ask themselves often, "what is required of me" versus asking "is this going to be easy or hard?"
— they know that they can only rise to the level of their highest ambition when they have strengthened and also raised the standards of their most important disciplines versus hoping and wishing and not generating any real momentum or progress.
— most importantly, they know that their toughest challenges and next level of mastery, comes from deeper understanding and mastery of themselves versus comparing and contrasting to what others are doing.
With this activating mantra, philosophy and actionable disciplines, you can go from feeling anxious, stressed and frustrated, to calm, determined and confident that you will figure it out and succeed at whatever you decide.
The difference between knowing this and understanding and integrating this belief into your being, is why even the greatest, hired a coach.
They knew that they could not go to their next level without a mentor, a guide, a coach who would help them reconnect with who they are and apply these simple principles with consistency.
Reading books and taking courses are important. Going to conferences, attending webinars and workshops will make a difference, but the real key to growth, is having someone help you make it your own. Someone that challenges you, inspires you, brings new energy to the conversation thereby helping you create new ideas, insights, behaviors and most importantly, new emotions.
If you don't make it your own, it simply remains information and knowledge. You don't integrate and make connections with what you are doing and why you are doing it.
And doing things without deeply moving and inspiring reasons is the second closest thing to insanity. The first being, doing things over and over in the same way and expecting different results.
Just because the principles and philosophy of WIN FROM WITHIIN are simple, doesn't mean that the work is going to be easy.
On the contrary, and I want to be very clear about this - there is plenty of work ahead.
Reaching your next level and mastering your current is a path of many distractions, difficult moments, hardship and struggle, but also filled with many joyous and exciting moments, adventure and discovery and most importantly, a path of your choosing because you know what you will find along the journey and who you will become as you achieve your wildest ambitions is worth every moment.
So today, I want to offer you the opportunity to begin your journey towards a life where you, WIN FROM WITHIN by working with me, ONE on ONE, at the highest level of coaching that I offer.
I am opening up a few spots because what really lights me up, is working with people who don’t take their precious gift of life lightly.
Working with people who deeply desire to regain their confidence and trust in themselves so they can take on the greatest challenges that will open up their next level of success.
What drives me is working with people who are committed to creating new standards by questioning old ones and creating new ones.
I want to work with people who know they are deeply capable of better if they only had greater clarity, consistent and empowering feedback, renewed and vibrant energy, unwavering confidence and the support of a coach or mentor that not only helped them achieve anything they wanted, but also helped them become better human beings and level up in each area of their life.
If you're thinking that WIN FROM WITHIN is just another mindset coaching program, then I challenge you to click on the link below and schedule your FREE 30 MINUTE STRATEGY CALL.
Focusing on mindset alone is how you reach your goals wondering, why was this so hard and draining.
Win From Within is more than just mindset - it's more than just any one thing alone - it's how it all harmoniously and synergistically comes together.
What good is peace of mind, if we don’t have peace of heart or renewed connection with our life and what matters most.
What good is having developed amazing strengths and accomplished great things if we have destroyed the relationships needed to continue supporting our growth and contribution.
The whole is greater than the sum of the parts and when you WIIN FROM WITHIN you realize that the life you've been living is more about ALIGNMENT to your highest standards in all areas of your life and being, than it is about just one thing.
The principles of WIN FROM WITHIN don't just focus on your strengths, or your weaknesses alone.
Just like I don't believe that your next level of mastery and genius is achieved by focusing on whatever you might be feeling or struggling with on any particular day.
True success, progress and fulfillment happen when we design and create our life by preparing and advancing with confidence and trust in ourselves.
Not by believing that we have done the work, rather, that we ARE DOING THE MOST IMPORTANT WORK AND FOCUSING ON WHAT MATTERS MOST OVER THE LONG TERM.
Don’t miss the opportunity to work with me and set new standards, to know what you are made of and learn the philosophy and principles that you can use to reach your next level at any time and stage of your life.
No matter where you are, you can remind yourself to WIN FROM WITHIN and immediately activate your best self.
Stop waiting and START leading.
START focusing on what matters most and allow me to help you instill this philosophy into your heart and mind, coach you on the strategies and disciplines and allow me to be your guide towards running your own race and leading with the type of confidence and joy that is contagious.
Click the link below and begin the transformational and important work when you decide and commit to WIN FROM WITHIN.
You can keep going after new tactics and thinking the answers are out there, or you can take strides towards finding your own path and expanding on your own ideas.
This isn't my map to your world - it's me helping you create your own map through a series of simple philosophies and disciplines that help you WIN where it matters most and lead.
The world doesn't need anymore followers.
You don't need any more information. You have everything you need right now.
The world needs you to lead - to lead your family, your career, your peers, your friends, your teams and your self with greater commitment and higher standards.
Click below and let's start coaching TODAY!